In 2011, William Cross published a book, The Life and Secrets of Almina Carnarvon.
As the Countess and her husband, Ian Dennistoun, owned Temple Dinsley from December
1929 until 1935, a précis of their lives is relevant to the history of Preston. Villagers
would have been employed in the mansion and its grounds during this period and would
have been in contact with its owners.
Of Almina’s parentage
Almina was born on 14 April 1876 at Bayswater, London. Her mother was Marie Boyer,
the daughter of a French financier from an old aristocratic family. Marie married
Frederick Wombwell – a ‘rakish man, stalked by debt’ - but the couple parted eight
years before Almina’s birth.
The identity of Almina’s father is probably concealed in archives beyond the public
domain. The pool has been muddied by Marie’s friendship with the wealthy banker,
Alfred Rothchild - some have said he was Almina’s father. Alfred was Marie’s entree
into the higher echelons of Society and was extremely generous to her. After Almina
married Lord Carnarvon, it suited his family to trumpet her Rothchild ancestry.
It is undeniable that Alfred Rothchild was Almina’s father-figure and effectively
her guardian. Under his tutelage, she was presented to Queen Victoria and two months
later at a Buckingham Palace State Ball, she caught the eye of her future husband
– the heir to the Earldom of Carnarvon. His family seat was Highclere Castle, Hampshire
and he also owned Bretby Park in Derbyshire.
Almina’s marriage to Lord Carnarvon
The future Lord Carnarvon was no academic, being lax and lazy and preferring the
racing form book. In 1889, he visited Egypt for the first time and developed an interest
in ancient art, photography and Cairo whorehouses and smoking dens. In 1890, following
his father’s death, he became the fifth Earl of Carnarvon. His title was his prime
asset as he suffered with poor health, a pock-marked complexion and impending insolvency.
Alfred Rothchild brokered the marriage of Almina and the Earl – she was attracted
by his aristocratic connections and he, by her access to the Rothchild fortune. They
married at St Margaret’s, Westminster in 1895 and so began twenty-two years of loveless
The young Almina successfully entertained the future King Edward VII at Highclere
as she mastered her role as mistress of a country house and estate. The couple flitted
between their English home and France.
In 1898, while visiting Egpyt, Almina became pregnant and gave birth to a son and
heir. Almina then threw herself into her social whirl in the best of society until
a second child was born in 1901.
Meanwhile, the Earl continued to cultivate his interest in Egyptology. In 1905, he
met the former Director of Antiquities at Cairo Museum, Howard Carter, and for several
years he and Almina visited Egypt. Almina was consolidating her reputation as a
delicate beauty and loving mother.
The First World War and Almina’s first nursing home
During the First World War, Almina re-invented herself as a Society lady who devoted
herself to caring for the injured in combat – first, Highclere was transformed into
a hospital; then, she moved on and opened a new hospital at Bryanston Square, London.
In 1918, Alfred Rothschild died and left a substantial part of his vast estate to
Almina. Included was his magnificent London home with its artwork and furniture that
was worth hundreds of thousands of pounds. The following year, peace having been
declared, she closed her London hospital. The Earl used some of their fortune to
fund continuing excavations in Egypt.
Almina meets the Dennistouns
Among the Carnarvons circle of friends was Sir John Cowans. When he became ill, Almina
rushed to his bedside where she first met Dorothy Dennistoun (wife of the soldier,
Lieutenant Colonel Ian Dennistoun, and Sir John’s mistress). The Dennistoun’s finances
had crumbled from a healthy beginning and ‘the couple’ were living separate lives,
each having embarked on several affairs. They divorced in 1921.
Almina and Dorothy became extraordinarily close – Dorothy living with the Carnarvons
for about eighteen months. Almina began to use Ian Dennistoun’s bank account to hide
money from the tax authorities.
On 4 November 1922, Carnarvon’s optimism, Carter’s instincts and Alfred’s money hit
the jackpot: they found the tomb of Tutankhamum - ‘golden beds and couches of state,
golden caskets, chariots, candlesticks, furniture, statues, clothes, weapons and
a magnificent throne, encrusted with gold, silver and jewels’.
Four months later and the Earl was dead – the victim, some said, of the curse of
King Tut and others, of a mosquito bite. He left all his Egyptian relics to Almina
who announced that she now wished to be known as Almina Countess of Carnarvon – thus
cementing her place in English society. She also purchased a home in her own right:
Alvie Lodge, Kincraig, Inverness-shire.
Ian Dennistoun, although divorced from Dorothy, met her several times during 1923
and was clearly still infatuated with her. His situation was complicated as Almina
had set him up in an expensive apartment in the West End of London. The two sent
Dorothy money, but refused to heed her pleas for more help. Lawyers were engaged
by both sides.
On 19 December 1923, Ian and Almina married at a Registry Office at Princes Row.
Four days later, Dorothy wrote a letter in which she inferred that Almina and Ian
had committed adultery when Lord Carnarvon was alive and demanded that Ian keep his
financial promises to her, using Almina’s fortune. Almina viewed this as an attempt
at blackmail. In 1924, Dorothy issued a writ against Ian claiming £13,000 and a backlog
of support promised in 1921.
The ensuing Court case, Dennistoun v. Dennistoun, exposed the dirty laundry of all
involved. Its salacious revelations entertained the nation so much so that the King
communicated his disgust and shame. The final verdict was a measly award to Dorothy
of £472 in respect of a loan she had made to Ian.
The matter did not end here. Ian lost his army commission and ‘retained no rank’.
Several of Almina’s friends severed their relationship and she squandered part of
her inheritance to pay for the litigation. She and Ian retreated to Alvie in Scotland
to lick their wounds and sold more of Alfred’s legacy at Christies.
By 1927, a new idea was hatched: Almina decided to open a nursing home, Alfred House,
at Portland Street, London. It was funded by the sale of some Egyptian antiquities
and her Alvie estate. This philanthropy went some way to restoring her reputation
Almina and Ian at Temple Dinsley
Two years later, in 1929, Almina again had to raise funds. She sold more relics and
borrowed money on the strength of an imminent settlement with the Egyptian government
over her late husband’s excavation costs. On 12 December 1929, the Times announced
that the couple had ‘arrived at Temple Dinsley, Hitchin, which is now their permanent
address’. It will be evident from what follows that they were often away from Preston.
In April 1930, Almina and Ian travelled once more to Egypt, but this year saw the
end of her involvement with Epyptology.
The following year was uneventful for Almina: Alfred House continued to function,
she bolstered her public image by attending several Society events in London and
even leased a small house at Mayfair as her London base. In August, they enjoyed
the Cowes Regatta.
Alfred House counted millionaires, celebrities, members of the Royal Family in Britain
and Europe as well as Almina’s social friends among its patients, but in 1932 its
most prominent patient yet was nursed – the Duke of Gloucester, the son of the King,
George V. The Duke noted that her choice of scent was ‘overpowering’.
In January 1933, the couple embarked on a seven-week-long cruise of the West Indies.
That year a cartoonist described ‘the immensely chic but slightly wayward nursing
home run by Almina’. – she was running a discreet abortion service!
On 29 June 1934, Jean Georgina Clare Dennistoun (aged 16 hours) was buried at St
Martin’s, Preston. William Cross has established that Jean was the daughter of one
of Ian Dennistoun’s cousins who died at the London nursing home.
However, transitory their life at Temple Dinsley, the couple became unhappy at the
mansion. Perhaps they were not popular in the village – although an employee once
described her as a ‘kind employer’. She was noted as a ‘somewhat eccentric lady who
frightened the villagers by asking them to mount Tutankhamum relics on black velvet
which naturally they refused to do.’ Almina’s interests lay ‘chiefly elsewhere but
her husband (who was not in the best of health) did much for Preston’ (and was a
More homes, nursing homes and debts
Almina and Ian moved to a property on the west side of the Isle of Wight, however
they retained some memories of Temple Dinsley as two of its fireplaces were dismantled
and installed in their new home.
Ian Dennistoun died on 22 May 1938, aged 59. Less than a year later, Almina sold
up, moved from the Isle of Wight and took a lease at Regent’s Park, London. The burden
of running Alfred House necessitated another sale at Christies and she also sold
her interest in Alfred Rothschild’s £500,000 fund.
The threat of German bombs during the Second World War, led to Alfred House being
closed and then destroyed in 1940. Almina opened a small, new hospital at Hove, Sussex
but this too was deemed to be in the firing line so she moved on to The Glebe, Barnet,
Herts which became her latest nursing home. She also retained the lease on her London
house where, in 1942, she set up home with James Timothy Stocking (JTS) who, although
almost thirty years her junior, was Almina’s latest beau. He was to be her constant
companion for twenty years though their relationship was concealed from even her
Once again, Almina’s creditors pressed and she left Regents Park. She lacked skill
in the financial management of her nursing homes having no reliable accounting system.
She considered it bad form to send bills for her less affluent patients. Finally,
The Glebe closed as she had run out of money.
Almina headed for the Quantock Hills in Somerset, to a thatched cottage near Taunton
with an orchard of six acres. Her plan was to start a market garden run by JTS. It
made a continuous loss. Despite this, she borrowed £5,250 from her son, the 6th Earl
of Carnarvon and tried to live on her annual allowance of £6,500. But her life was
hum-drum and tedious. To escape she travelled to London most weeks attending several
functions but repulsed attempts from her circle to visit her in Somerset.
Finally, in 1948, Almina’s spendthrift lifestyle caught up with her. She had sweet-talked
loans from a bank where she had also run up an overdraft. To settle, she sold the
cottage, but failed to repay the loan from her son. He furiously accused his mother
of being a scheming swindler and issued a writ for the monies owed.
Almina and household moved to a farm near Minehead where the descending cycle into
debt continued. She had spent a king’s ransom but now faced total ruin. The tax man
hovered, alerted by her son! He claimed unpaid tax of £22,000 – her liabilities amounted
to more than £30,000. The proud Almina was a bankrupt.
She called in favours and leased a cottage at Cleeve. Her contemporaries died or
hurtfully shunned her when she appeared at old haunts. Almina was allowed £60 a month
on which to live and in 1954 her grandson was persuaded to buy her 19 Hampton Road,
Bristol – a three-bedroomed home in a row of Victorian terraced houses.
For about ten years Almina cadged money from her family for holidays to the South
of France, but her time was often spent at home gossiping on the telephone. There
was also the occasional visit to the races.
JTS was found dead in bed after a heart attack in 1963. In his will he left £500
to Almina’s housekeeper, Anne – he had been cheating on Almina: he had also seduced
In April 1969, Almina,aged 93, (who dreaded swallowing fish and chicken bones) choked
on a piece of gristle in a home-made chicken stew. It couldn’t be dislodged so her
lower esophagus was removed. She lingered for three weeks until her death.
William Cross’ appraisal of Almina’s life
She led a tumultuous life – striving for ‘more money, more status, more happiness’.
It was ‘a fulfilling life when things went her way, especially when she was nursing’
but she ‘plunged herself into doomed situations and relationships....Money had a
way of slipping through her fingers...She was strong-willed, resilient..delighting
in surrounding herself with notable figures...mostly men, for she loved men...She
had genuine feelings for some members of her family but was unable to commit to them
beneath the surface...She was, despite her faults, a very great lady, a strong-willed
old world aristocrat, a Countess through and through’.
Acknowledgement: this article has been distilled from William Cross’ book, ‘The Life
and Secrets of Almina Carnarvon’. I am also grateful to him for supplying the photographs
of the Temple Dinsley fireplaces and for allowing the other photographs shown above
to be used. They are from the collection of Tony Leadbetter, Almina’s godson..
The Life and Secrets of Almina Cararvon may be ordered from William Cross, 58 Sutton
Road, Newport, Gwent, South Wales NP19 7JF for £10.00 plus £2.50 p&p. A donation
from every book sold will be made to the Newport Hard of Hearing group.
The volume has 258 pages, 56 photographs, a full index and the 33 pages of end notes
are a testimony to the research undertaken by its author.
This article has merely skimmed the surface of this remarkable woman’s life - I recommend
that this book be read in its entirety.
Review of ‘Lordy! – Tutankhamun’s Patron As A Young Man’
I read Willie Cross’ The Life and Secrets of Almina Carnarvon because she and her
husband owned Temple Dinsley at Preston, Hertfordshire. I have a web site devoted
to Preston and I wanted to understand the people who lived in the mansion there.
My quest was satisfied.
Almina’s husband was the fifth Earl of Carnarvon - known to his Egyptian workers
as ‘Lordy’. The book,Lordy! – Tutankhamun’s Patron As A Young Man, is a prequel
to Life and Secrets and describes the Earl’s parents and his life until his marriage
to Almunia. It also examines whether ‘Lordy’ exhibited homosexual tendencies and
reveals the true cause of his death following his discovery along with Howard Carter
of Tutenkhamun’s tomb – ‘It was nothing like that…no, nothing like that at all’
Lordy is carefully distilled from letters, diaries, newspapers and other historic
documents - I covertly watched Willie once as he researched at The National Archives.
It is supported by thirty-eight photographs and 1,038 crammed end notes. Such a
treatise could be tedious to read but Cross’ prose is smooth, descriptive and light.
Painstakingly chronicled are the circumstances that led in 1861 to the marriage of
the 4th Earl and Lady Evelyn Stanhope – ‘there are indications that this was a love
match’. Also described are the Earl’s political designs and Lady Evelyn’s rise in
Society circles (she was appointed lady of the bed chamber to Princess Alexandra
of Denmark) – ‘she was undeterred in her ambition of seeing Carnarvon achieve high
office and she was, in turn, enjoying the status of one of the leading political
hostesses of the era’. Then came her early, poignant death – it was ‘a shadow over
everything’ – a trauma that deeply affected ‘Lordy’who later dabbled in macabre
séances in an attempt to contact her.
The uneasy relationship between ‘Lordy’ and his father is meticulously researched
– ‘the 4th Earl would not accept the boy as an individual or deal with him, being
less able intellectually’. When he remarried – seeking a male heir as “‘Lordy’ was
such a disappointment” – ‘Lordy’was in ‘a state of utter desperation’. Then came
the rigorous regime at Eton where he formed an alliance with Prince Victor Duleep
Singh – ‘both were outsiders…neither boy was clever’. The boys fell in with London
bookmakers and money lenders and ‘Lordy’ was frequently bailed out from financial
scrapes by his father, who then administered stern tongue lashings. And so to Cambridge
University, where ‘Lordy’ and the Prince ‘slipped into the twilight world of frequenting
London’s gaming clubs and brothels’. The ‘constant squabbles between ‘Lordy’ and
his father became more heated, always over his extravagance, life style and lack
Meanwhile, after a long battle with what was earlier euphemistically portrayed as
gout, but was likely carcinoma mitosis, the 4th Earl died from liver cancer. ‘Lordy’
had his own health problems. What was dressed up as ‘bad quinsy’ was actually syphilis
of the face and mouth contracted in Egypt. With an increasingly impoverished ‘Lordy’
deciding to seek an heiress and the negotiations for Almina Wombwell’s hand in marriage,
this prequel ends and their story is taken up in Life and Secrets.
Lordy opens a panelled door to reveal the privileged lives of the upper class in
the second half of the nineteenth century. Health, in particular, was a constant
concern. Lordy alsohelps us understand how Victorian gentry managed their estates
and reared their children.
As the Carnarvons resided at Highclere in Hampshire, the setting for the popular
TV drama, Downton Abbey, many will be drawn to Lordy to learn what life was really
like ‘above stairs’ in the mansion. They will not be disappointed.
Above, l to r: Henry, Fourth Earl of Carnarvon, Lady Evelyn Stanhope; Prince Victor
Duleep Singh (left) with ‘Lordy’
‘Lordy’ was published on 1 September 2012 @ £15.00 UK ONLY
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